Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Animal Healing

My sister is here for Thanskgiving. It's her favorite holiday. Holidays have not been the easiest for her in recent years. I wanted to do something that would make this a very very good one. Once we got her bags settled into the guest room, we went to the park with some nuts and I parked us right in the middle of an area with tall trees that's heavily populated with wild squirrels.

At first we only found one, then two, but --as it always does in the animal world --word spread. Little heads were popping out of hollows and up from behind rocks. They began climbing down tree trunks and skampered up from all directions. We sat there in bliss, handing out nuts as fast as we could. She was amazed, as most people are, at how gentle they are in taking a nut from your hands, and how they do NOT bite, though each one has their own style.


I was hoping that she'd earn the confidence of the one or two who put their little paws on your hand, but she did one better. One started to crawl up on her knee and kept coming back until he was quite comfortable sitting there. I snapped a few pix for her to have forever, as it's a really special experience to earn the trust of these charming but skittish creatures.

As we were leaving I said, "If I ever get blue, this is where I go and it completely disappears."

By 2:30 we were at the zoo where I'd arranged for private visits to feed the meerkats and the giraffes. All I can say is, the look of pure joy radiated from her face, and, this Thanksgiving, I could not be more grateful for that. She looks beautiful, does she not?

My tall handsome boyfriend the giraffe that I wrote about here even gave my sis a long nuzzle. (though he immediately made it up to me by having a love fest in front of my approving husband!).

I have seen the roughest, toughest brutes reduced to a puddle over a puppy, and I often see the homeless buying a cheap bag of peanuts in the shell or a loaf of bread so they can go around the park feeding the birds, squirrels, the chicken (yes, there's a lone black hen in the park, a story I have yet to tell), the nutrias and the ducks and geese. I have seen that no matter what the creature -- be it a mole rat, a tarantula or a warthog, there are people who absolutely think they are the prettiest, most wonderful, loveable thing on the planet, and are devoted to them.

What is it about the power animals have to bring out our most innocent, open, loving selves, give our lives meaning in our care for them and banish any sadnesses from our hearts?

11 comments:

meb said...

Sydney... loved the pictures of your sister enjoying the miracles of nature. That squirrel on her lap, the giraffe nuzzling her...just too precious.

Laurie said...

Oh Sydney, what a priceless gift you and the animals gave your sister. The pictures show her moving into that lovely state of grace that animals can take us to.

I don't know how they do that, but I know they can be the best therapy for the blues or the deepest of depressions. They seem to sense our need for their affection and just give it, straight from their hearts. Thank heavens for that!

bindu said...

Lovely post, Sydney. I'm sure your sister will visit you again soon, just for such an experience. It's so true that animals have the power to heal us. Which is why it is so frustrating that we as a species are doing so much to destroy their lives. I am right now working on a paper about the biodiversity crisis and the related sociological factors (it's due at 5pm, and here I am, reading your blog!!) and I feel so depressed reporting the escalating rates of extinctions and habitat destruction. If only I had a wand ...

nollyposh said...

~Gods creatures~ xox

Anonymous said...

Can I be your sister for a weekend?
You are so lucky to be able to get upclose and personal with some of the zoo animals.
I wish you and your family a Happy Thanksgiving.

Margo

Anonymous said...

what a wonderful way to spend the holidays- first together and then to share these wonderful moments together. I'm sure the two of you will treasure forever!
That giraffe is quite the flirt..... so big yet so very gentle.
I have always wondered if these animals remember you Syd, from each time you visit...your scent or how you look? And if so, do they know your sister is your sister? I cant wait for the hen story....

Wandering Sage said...

wonderful words Sydney...thanks for making contact.

Anonymous said...

Your sister is RaDiAtInG!!!
That must make YOU feel good too!
xxxsm

Sydney said...

Margo -- I smiled at your first line!

And Bindu -- I totally understand straying from papers in blogland. I totally hear you abotut how you feel about it's topic. I can only hope that consciousness is being raised enough right now, and that maybe we have leaders coming into place that will take this whole sense of the world falling apart in so many ways and see it for the opportunity it is to REBUILD on all levels.

Sandy -- A flirt is right! I do think smell has something to do with it, because when he did nuzzle me, he did it for so long, I heard the keepers expresing astonishment, like you weren't kidding, he really DOES like you.

Delee said...

So glad that you had such a wonderful time with your sister. Making memories is what it is all about in the long run.

Chris Daly said...

You have the cutest boyfriend. I bet your sisyer had an amazing time. I really enjoyed your owl posts too.